Your life is very normal and good enough
It all begins with an idea.
If you’ve ever gone through series of heartbreaks or a failed romantic relationship, or several years of not being able to get a job, you may wonder how statistically normal your case might be, you may start to feel like your short comings are a unique curse. But in actuality they are not unique. Every single person on earth isn’t exempted from trials. Even our Lord Jesus Christ went through his own fair share of trials and tribulations when He took on the form of man.
Our assessment of our stories suffers from an unfair asymmetry. We know our own lives from the inside but generally only encounter other people’s in heavily, edited, sanitized form from the outside. We see other people’s relationships, careers, progress, marriages, in social situations where politeness and cheeriness are the rule. We seem to trust the blurred summaries of their lives. But we don’t have access to footages from the bedroom, we can’t see their everyday difficulties.
We can’t help but be aware of our own situation. Because of this asymmetric analysis, we come to the conclusion that our own lives and relationships are a great deal darker and far more painful than is common. We need to be fair to ourselves and our loved ones to create space in our minds for the scale of our ignorance. In actual fact, we simply don’t know. We are lacking data. We owe ourselves a richer picture of love than we have.
Misery is actually a rule, isolation, pining for a lover, some peace and compatibility, joblessness, being broke, confusion, far more than the public sources ever admit. It’s not that your life is damned. But sometimes, life is inescapably a difficult project. Part of the reason why we are so miserable is because we have the wrong kind of art. The movies we watch are oddly coy and cheesy. The novels don’t tell it how it is. The truth is the dominant emotion in most relationships is ambivalence. That is a complex mixture of love and hate.
Your life is very normal and good enough.
Blog Post Title Two
It all begins with an idea.
It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more. Or maybe you have a creative project to share with the world. Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.
Don’t worry about sounding professional. Sound like you. There are over 1.5 billion websites out there, but your story is what’s going to separate this one from the rest. If you read the words back and don’t hear your own voice in your head, that’s a good sign you still have more work to do.
Be clear, be confident and don’t overthink it. The beauty of your story is that it’s going to continue to evolve and your site can evolve with it. Your goal should be to make it feel right for right now. Later will take care of itself. It always does.
Blog Post Title Three
It all begins with an idea.
It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more. Or maybe you have a creative project to share with the world. Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.
Don’t worry about sounding professional. Sound like you. There are over 1.5 billion websites out there, but your story is what’s going to separate this one from the rest. If you read the words back and don’t hear your own voice in your head, that’s a good sign you still have more work to do.
Be clear, be confident and don’t overthink it. The beauty of your story is that it’s going to continue to evolve and your site can evolve with it. Your goal should be to make it feel right for right now. Later will take care of itself. It always does.
Blog Post Title Four
It all begins with an idea.
It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more. Or maybe you have a creative project to share with the world. Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.
Don’t worry about sounding professional. Sound like you. There are over 1.5 billion websites out there, but your story is what’s going to separate this one from the rest. If you read the words back and don’t hear your own voice in your head, that’s a good sign you still have more work to do.
Be clear, be confident and don’t overthink it. The beauty of your story is that it’s going to continue to evolve and your site can evolve with it. Your goal should be to make it feel right for right now. Later will take care of itself. It always does.